I have always written about
people who have influenced my life in some way or the other. People around us
have a great impact on us knowingly or unknowingly. I always pick people who
are likeminded in some aspect and I think this goes well with anyone on earth. While
leaving TACOLA (Tamil Computing Lab, Anna University), I never ever thought it
is not going to be so easy to make friends at workplace like I had there. What
I learnt after joining SRM is that professional life shows you many likeminded
people in terms of your work ethics and policies. I just earned a big list of
friends that way, who have similar thought process to that of mine and have helped me to grow along
with them. I was just wowed by so many people who gave their hands around the
globe who work in the same research field of mine and lift me up and kept on believing me .This is
what is keeping me to move forward. Dr.
Muthu Annamalai sir from U.S and Dr. Bharathi Raja Ashok sir from Ireland have
shown a great support. I am thankful to them. There is a huge list of people at
SRM and outside SRM who show their support consistently and encourage me always .I will write about them all someday. I am only worried if I
will hurt anyone; if I miss to mark anyone by mistake 😊.
that is why delaying that right now 😊
In this process of making many
professional friends, I really forgot to make friends at the workplace like I
made during my UG, PG and TACOLA days. I was fine with it and felt so
comfortable. Of course, my friends I made at my apartment are like the ones like
I had during my school/college days. I really miss you ladies during this
lockdown ☹ Those extended chats on Fridays, with our kids
playing around, short trips. …. this Covid is bad ☹ We
will win this and will catch up. And yes finally coming to the point. I was
lucky enough to find a friend at workplace too like I had at
school/college/TACOLA/apartment. This post is about that friend.
Then in 2018, we again took NLP together, but I never sensed a friend in him and yeah I said I almost forgot to make friends apart from professional friends at workplace after TACOLA. Also Karthick had an additional tag on him. He is the son of our Head of the Department, Dr.B.Amudha mam. Usually, these tags disturb me a lot. I have strange policies, so I don’t violate that for any reason. Of course, that tag was not made visible by Karthick at any point of time and the problem was much with my perception 😊 I know I am strange. Coming to that NLP workshop at Vadapalani campus in 2019, that’s when it hit me that this person is very nice and had so much of similarities with my TACOLA friends. He resembles a lot of my TACOLA friend, Radhakrishnan in terms of both looks and character.
Karthick is my Python guru. We both gave one more hands-on workshop at the EEE department of our University. Without him those workshops would not have served the purpose and he gave me a clarity on how a hands-on Workshop should be conducted. He already had so much of workshop experiences. The foundations that he gave me on Python and on clarity on how to conduct workshops gave a lot of confidence to me later. Also we both worked on projects on Speech recognitions. We used to explore on Tamil computing tools.We started a github project named, "Karmughil". Also we tried getting funds for these projects and we wrote proposals together. We targeted to submit to Tamil Virtual Academy(TVA) and they asked us few requirements so we have spent one full half day sitting on the stone benches of Anna university , CEG campus editing those proposals / coding speech recognition ( TVA is next to CEG campus and we preferred sitting under the tree at CEG:) . I seek a lot of compatibility while working and I have found a lot of coherent thoughts coming out of both of us while writing those proposals. I am going to really miss this Karthick. The way we write proposals in vey few hours, even patent documents. I am doubting if I will get such a compatible co-researcher. Good Luck to me :)
Karthi,( that’s how I call him as
that “ik” at the end was not coming
easily for me so I decided this way 😊) you
are one of the blessed souls and I will surely miss you in the campus. When I
was in TACOLA, going to canteen for tea twice a day was a ritual. I almost
forgot to have a teatime at SRM and It was you who would drag me to canteen, at
times, for tea. I realized after 4 years that our Java green tea shops deliver
such a nice ginger tea. I really enjoyed
our Tamil virtual Academy visits. CEG has a lot of lifetime emotion within me and thanks for giving me company to have food at CEG canteen during our TVA visits :)We tried our level best to get that proposal
but sad that we could not get that. Never mind.
You taught me many things right from Python and even on how to be
composed towards people who do not align with our policies. Thanks for taking
all my nonsense. None at SRM, know that I get angry as I don’t vent my anger
other than people at home and to my close friends. I know departures are part of life and we got to accept that and I am very well used to it and I also know that some people would
never leave out of our life/mind no matter what.
Thanks to the souls who patiently
read this 😊
Subalalitha





2 comments:
Ma’am, it is beautifully written and well explained. I appreciate the effort and idea.
Thanks so much Ayushy:)
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