If f(x) =Love...

I have written about this few times already in my blog...So what? I will write thousand times if I can …Certain things at the first sight receives the detestable feel from us for some reason/no reason … I felt the same way recently seeing the Caste/Religion communities in Orkut…Whenever I happen to receive friend requests or send friend requests in orkut, the moment I see their communities in the name of their Caste/Religion, I just can’t stand it .It irks to the core. Why people make those ugly stuffs keep going...I don’t see any good reason to keep it live for the next generation .I was about to send a friend request y day to a gal, but totally got upset seeing she being a member of such communities …At least we can we can keep them off from powerful tools like orkut coz its highly contagious ..They may have umpteen reasons to justify it, but I don’t think I would get convinced with even a single reason. I thought at least after our mom/dad generation, the world would be a better place in this regard, but I am sure that I am wrong…

I once had a very stupid experience in the cinema theater here in UK.One day ,we were waiting in the queue to see 2012 movie...I happened to converse with a guy who is Selva’s colleague .After coming to know that my native place is Tirunelveli, he asked my grandfather’s name .I din understand why all of a sudden he is asking my grandfather’s name. After all I am not so good in picking up certain things so quick. In short I am a quiet a tube light...No issues in accepting facts :) But Selva understood what he meant and told him about our marriage which din bother those ugly stuffs…He went ahead and asked me again ,”Oh love marriage aahhh?paravaala unga thaathaa pera sollunga ?”.That’s when I understood about what he is asking …I thought ,”There is no chance for these people to change even if they are in UK.For that matter, even if they travel to moon ,they would not get sleep unless and until they ask their co traveler,”Saar neenga Indiana ?Tamizhana ?aamaava ? appo unga thaatha peru enna ,unga aayaa peru enna ……………………………………?”

I had to tell him my grandfather’s name finally as he compelled me so .I truncated the caste identification from my Grandfather’s name and told his name as Chinna Udayar.But unfortunately Udayar happens to be a caste name. So had to hear this from him,”oh udayar aah neenga ?”…I ended up with the feeling usually my fav Vadivelu sir has on screen ,”sappa mudiyala paa”.Actually Some people at my village append udayar in their names followed by the goddess of our village named ,”Udayanaayagi amman”.

Some persons I meet have so much of good qualities in them but the moment they ask us about the caste/religion the perception about them just goes down to an abyss.The same guy for that matter whom I met in the theater, is actually a nice guy but minus the conversation. There are so many nice identifications about which we can talk. Our education, hobbies, talents, passions etc etc .So why talk about the useless identification which does no good to us at least in terms of love… If f(x) =Love …definitely x can’t be caste/religion. If u try proving it to be true just to oppose my view, then Love is not Love or at least it’s intoxicated and if it’s intoxicated, it can’t be love...